Sharon, I don’t want to get married
Marriage is a social construct invented to trap women
It is very old fashioned
I grew up believing my parents had the perfect marriage and then they smashed this illusion
Too young to see the reality of marriage
The ugly truth
How do you stand in front of the God; who you hold above all and lie and spit at His feet
I think instead of being asked if I want to get married I should be asked what marriage means to me
Marriage means my father is going to hurt my mother
It means my father is going to havethree kids with two other women
And he’s going to take me on these adventures and darken my soul and begin the pressure wheel of my hate towards men
It means my mom is gong to be so inveted for all the things she  sacrificed and gave for marriage and ignnores her kids
Tha she becomes so bitter and plants little seeds of resentment in her children towards their father
It means my mother will spend her days reciting events of how the man she gave her life up for her betrayed her
It means my father and mother will invest in my father
And my father will threaten my mother
Marriage is when you forget to ask how ae you?
And you tell the supposed love of your life, you are tired of them and they need to change their ways
Marriage is your mother telling you , her children are the reason why she stayed and redirects her resentment to her kids rather than seeking refuge in the only blessing marriage allowed
Oh also because 
As a feminist my chest won’t let me